Reality > Performativity

For the leaders, teams, and humans who are done performing and ready to build something real. Body: This is a working site. Not a brochure. There's a practice here — twenty years of it — built around the idea that the most dangerous thing a leader can do is lose their humanity in the pursuit of their brand. If that sentence landed somewhere, you're in the right place.

The Work (Together)

Coaching for teams and individuals and consultation services to help move forward when you feel stuck.

The Lab

Frameworks and application of organizational and leadership theory to help make durable changes for individuals and teams.

The Library

Reflections on life, leadership, culture, and meaning making for the world we live in today. The thoughts that guide the work.

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How We Can Work Together

We offer a variety of tools and frameworks for teams to grow and move forward. For individuals looking to grow, individual coaching can be a great way to get from where you are to where you want to be.

The frameworks
(a non-exhaustive list)

The Tools You Need

Tailored for You

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WHISK-Y Business

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Using the WHISK-Y model, leaders learn new ways of understanding their teams, communicating effectively, and moving forward with purpose.

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The Enneagram – Understanding Motivation

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Using the Enneagram typology, leaders and teams are guided through the work of understanding themselves and what drives them and how it can help them be better leaders and team members.

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Relearning to Sing

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For teams and organizations who are on the edge of burnout or have already fallen off the cliff. An exploration of how to recognize burnout and how to start the work of finding health again.

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Every trip is led by someone who grew up there — not a script.

Ten travelers, max

Small enough to fit around one dinner table. Most groups leave as friends.

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Free date changes up to 30 days out, and a full refund if we cancel.

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average rating
15k
happy travelers

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Desmond Purpleson

Desmond Purpleson

CEO

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Desmond Eagle

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Ruby Von Rails

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